Better safe than sorry! Using apps like Scruff, Grindr and Hornet is your way to tap into the gay scene of wherever you are and find secret gay bars, underground parties, and other events.
As a word of warning, if you are traveling somewhere where LGBT rights are not great, make sure you get a secure VPN on your phone to protect your privacy and, in some places, unblock these apps. Elevating the game is Taimi, a newcomer designed for gay men seeking real connections. We also love that Taimi is focussed on the security and safety of its users with special verification and authentication systems to keep fake accounts out.
There is nothing worse than a professional catfish right? And there is also the possibility of creating groups where users can launch discussions, organize events, cooperate and collaborate with NGOs. This is the social network aspect and we are obsessed with it.
There is also a collaboration with the Trevor Project meaning users can contact Trevor immediately from their profiles and the possibility of making video calls, meaning Taimi is one of the best gay apps currently out there! So get downloading now to form quality connections, stay safe and share without being judged! As you might guess from the name, Scruff is the slightly rough-around-the-edges version of Grindr, developed for those guys who like a little, well, scruff!
The users tend to be that bit more masc and a little older than on Grindr, although with its growing popularity there are plenty to choose from. You can scroll for nearby and around the world, so could always set up a meet-up in your destination in advance. While there are a lot of similarities between Hornet and Grindr, the newer Hornet works much more smoothly, with less of the irritating ads that pop up on Grindr to get in between you and your new piece of eye candy. What makes Hornet so great for gay travelers are the community features that help users network beyond dating.
It started in Berlin and has now spread around the world and, while heavy on the hook-ups, also enables users to find friends, dates or learn more about LGBT issues. It aims to be a safe and friendly environment where you can live your queer life to the fullest. The app is free and it just takes creating a quick profile to get you in touch with tonnes of guys all over the world. Wait, what? This is the largest gay social network in the world?
Well, it was developed in China and the majority of its 27 million users are there. Internet censorship is rife in China and Blued is a way of getting around the banning of sites like Grindr. Its founder is a former policeman and committed to LGBT rights and we love that the network is now in partnership with Hornet. Although it might have been set up as a Grindr for straight people, there are now lots of gays using it; just set your preferences and enjoy the wealth of choice there. Calling all bears, or fans of bears; this is the gay hookup app for you. Businesses might even use their Growlr HOT!
In the end I opted for a businessman with a cheeky smile. He had a stunning flat in the 7th arrondissement, the entire top floor of an apartment building — sumptuous decor, marble floors, urns, the works. He was stunning as well: We drank champagne out on his balcony and started to get down to business just as a summer thunderstorm hit — torrential rain, rumbling thunder, the whole thing was so sultry.
I have a vivid memory of cumming as I watched lighting fork over the Eiffel Tower. It was a mood. I was in Romania, and after checking into my hotel I fired up Grindr. I began speaking to this handsome man, before going out to a gay bar.
I was surprised when I arrived to see the same man at the bar. We ended up going back to my hotel room and having the best sex I have ever had in my entire life. He began to start smashing up my room and shouting, until I reached for the phone to call reception. Then he bolted out of my room, clearing my minibar into his bag in the process. I viewed them as two separate entities, because I thought the app was trash and still do.
As a freelancer, it sometimes feels like a large part of my job is being ignored or kept waiting, so I learned to steer clear of Grindr because that was my experience of using the app, too. It often made me feel invisible. My Grindr profile used to be a picture of me in a pink crop-top. Once, I was very drunk and horny after a night out. I saw this hot guy on Grindr who was very close by.
I started speaking to him, while drifting in and out of drunken sleep. There was the guy who insisted on serenading me while making me take a lukewarm bath and drink champagne. Then there was the guy who laid towels down on the sofa and started rubbing olive oil all over me. But at one point in my life, Grindr made it much easier for me to get drugs. When I moved to Notting Hill it was a matter of hours before I'd connected with two dealers who I continued to use for the time I lived there, which meant I could access other like-minded individuals to go and have chemsex with.
I keep it hidden on my phone and I feel guilty every time I use it. It's not ideal, but works for me. It was my 21st birthday.
I was sat in my room alone on Grindr and saw his beautiful face. I messaged him, expecting to be ignored. We chatted and scheduled a date for the following Friday. When he arrived, he introduced himself with a handshake, which I still make fun of him for.
But perhaps what is most striking about Grindr is how native its interface feels. Related posts. One part of the app that was fascinating were the categories given to those who sign up: Noteworthy Despite its privacy setbacks, Grindr has garnered coveted awards such as the award for "Best Mobile Dating App" at the iDate Awards in A publicity image for Grindr not real profiles. It has gone on to win other awards for excellence in the field of mobile dating apps and handheld apps, as well as About.
I made out with him in my car, then drove him home. That was the Friday. We ended up going out again on the Saturday. And the Sunday.
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And the Monday. And the Tuesday.
I grew up in the s, so I know what racism is like. I have used Grindr over various periods in my life, while identifying as a gay man, non-binary person and now a trans woman.
Using Grindr in each form has been both useful and frustrating. As a feminine-presenting person, my femininity has either been mocked or highly sexualised. As a gay man, people always assumed I was a bottom. As a trans woman, men often mean well, but end up treating me like some kind of sex doll. I also find it very othering to see gay men making jokes in the "pronoun" section, and I got tired of being fetishised or called a "tranny", so eventually I deleted the app.
Using Grindr as a new father was a minefield. This made me both happy and sad.